Personal Stories
I don't know where my story is going. But I do know I don't plan on living this lie forever.
Hello there, I'm DALE What's on your mind?
For some men in heterosexual relationships, the answer to that question gets pretty complicated. It may include questions or feelings of attraction to other guys. And stigma is probably part of the mix too. I’m here to offer a space for you to get the info you need and to connect with other likeminded guys to tackle stigma and a range of other issues head on. And if times are tough, I can point you in the right direction.
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Hello there, I'm Dale. Is this your first chat?
Buddy82 says
Yea, so what's the deal? What do you guys talk about?
Robert-67 says
Our experiences, challenges, what's worked, what hasn't. Share thoughts & advice.
Franklin says
It's simple, and it's with guys who know where you're coming from.
The Dale Live Chat Rooms
I get what you’re saying.
Sometimes it’s a relief to just talk with guys who know where you’re coming from. That’s what these Live Chats are all about – being able to connect in real time to discuss topics that are otherwise tricky to navigate by on your own.
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Dale Forums
Can’t wait to chat? I hear ya!
That’s what the Forums are for. Stigma, anxiety, depression – these aren’t easy topics. They require a bit of discussion. Plus, they have a way of weaving in a whole bunch of other issues. See what the guys are talking about.
Knowledge Base
How’d you get so smart?
Let’s face it. Nobody is born with all the answers. We learn them as we go. I’ve started to put together a few pieces of info, and I’ll be adding more along the way.
News
DALE featured on JOY 94.9!
Recently Josh - the DALE project officer at Thorne Harbour Health - spoke with Ruby and Alex on Triple Bi-Pass on JOY .…
Educational
What is Internalised Homophobia?
Homophobia is good for no one. When you’re trying to figure out your own same-sex attraction, any pre-existing…
Personal Stories
David’s Story - Part Eight: “I’m much more content within myself.”
The final chapter of David's story. After a tumultuous four years, David has rebuilt his life and achieved some…
Personal Stories
David’s Story - Part Seven: “I’m really grateful for my sexuality.”
When he was ready to come out to his workmates, David chose quite a dramatic way of letting everyone know.
Personal Stories
David’s Story - Part Six: “Two and a half years after separating, I felt myself sinking.”
Separating from his wife was just the beginning of a much longer process. There was more work to do in coming to terms…
Personal Stories
David’s Story - Part Five: “I pretty well left the house as it was.”
David and his wife came to an amicable decision to separate.
Personal Stories
David’s Story - Part Four: “I thought I just needed a heterosexual relationship.”
With his Christian beliefs, David believed that through a good and faithful marriage he could overcome his homosexual…